Today he is wearing Elmo slippers playing with a toy airplane. Before long he won’t believe that he ever wore those slippers and will be craving expensive sneakers and car keys instead. How time flies.
Once upon a time there were two houses filled with large families, busy, loud, noisy. The people rose early, worked in fields, sometimes in other people’s homes and then gathered in the evenings to share meals. Bed time came early. It was more radio than TV. They lived far from town, owned no cars but then a lot of people didn’t own cars. They sent their children to school by foot for many years until buses took them way on the other side. They made do with what they had. Had some good times, had some bad. In some ways they were poor and in some ways they were not. However, the house was home.
That was then and now the people are gone. Their houses are almost too.
- The rules of renting (blogs.confused.com)
Washington, DC’s summer weather is doggone hot! 100 degrees maybe more. Early today in Buddy Attick Lake Park in Greenbelt, MD my new friend John was making sure his dog was getting relief.
Few people think of having funeral and memorial services photographed. If done properly it can be a tremendous source of comfort to a family. It might also be the only time for some families to take group portraits as members often live many miles apart and only see each other on such occasions. When my mother passed almost 10 years ago, the services were beautiful and well attended with relatives that I haven’t seen since. I certainly wish pictures had been taken.
The pictures that I take do not focus on the deceased but on the people gathered. Many of them are taken discretely from a distance. Unless the family requests I do not take pictures during the ceremony but have found that afterwards and during the repast there are opportunities to capture images that will be treasured for years. Sometimes this becomes the last time family members are photographed together.
Reasons I think a funeral is one of the best times to take pictures.
- It’s an important life event that can be documented for future generations.
- Often families in mourning are not able to focus on who is present and what events are happening. Pictures allow them to be reminded.
- Photographs can bring comfort to family members later. They can be reminders of how many people attended and how special the ceremony was.
- It’s an excellent opportunity for family portraits as sadly this is the time when the most family members are in one place. Often family members have not seen each other in years and may not see each again for years.
- At the repast people are nicely dressed and are usually willing to be photographed. I have had family members who are not on speaking terms for some reason still agree to take a picture for this occasion.
This beautiful horse-drawn carriage convinced me that I needed to have some kind of camera with me. In this case it was my cell phone.
Quiet moments can be taken quietly without intruding.
Families often would never have an idea of the number of attendees.
For the two pictures above it would have been very difficult to have all of these family members gather in one place for these portraits except for these occasions. After the repast families relax somewhat and are more open to pictures and often can even manage some smiles.
If I were to ask you where do you think these pictures were taken, it is probably not likely that you would say Alaska. Every direction I pointed my camera in Alaska there was something breathtaking to capture. I also found the people in AK to be just as wonderful. Here are a few people pictures. By the way, the food was good too.
I flew into Anchorage and other than a day cruise and a great train ride I simply wandered around the city and enjoyed every minute of it. Been there yet?
Go to An Alaskan Summer to see images of beautiful scenery and a remarkable train ride.
A few years back I photographed an engagement party for a wonderful Ethiopian couple. It was one of the most fun parties I have worked. I still recall the warm greetings and beautiful attire that the women wore. There were interesting customs and great food in addition.
This is the first in a new series about everyday people who I meet and think have interesting stories.
Today’s person is Charles and he is a barber in Baltimore but his clients and friends all call him Knowledge. Get to know him a little better by watching the short video we made where he talks about his passion for barbering. I learned that there is a lot more to barbering than just cutting hair.
We also shot some pictures as you can see below and I think they came out pretty good. Hope you agree.
If you are looking for a good barber, check out Knowledge. He can be reached at 443-751-3062 or by email at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Commenmindz Barbershop & Oasis is located on Woodlawn Drive in Baltimore.
Do you see people on the street and wonder what they are doing, where they are heading, what’s significant or happening with them on a particular day?
Well on October 22, 2009 I decided to take my camera and engage people I didn’t know. My plan was to ask them what was going on with them on that day. I went to a park in NW DC and had no success in the morning. I talked to a fascinating man but he would have no part of having his picture taken as he had an issue with the police. (Most of the time I ask people before I take their picture) I gave up and decided to toss the street photographer idea and went to the gym. Coming out of the gym I saw on my cellphone that someone had actually read my Facebook message about my self assigned photography project and was looking to see who I had shot. I had to do something. I ended up driving over to SE near the Potomac Metro Station. There I got better results.
I found 6 people willing to talk but it didn’t seem that anyone was doing much more than just enjoying a beautiful day outside. The closest I got to finding out about a big event was hearing that someone’s out of town friend was having a birthday. I was hoping to get a “I’m getting married tomorrow”, “I’m leaving for Africa in the morning”, or even a “I just got a $50 parking ticket”. True, if I had engaged more people I would have gotten more interesting responses. It is not easy getting strangers to talk to you and then let you take a picture. Honestly, I probably wouldn’t let a total stranger with no press credentials take a picture of me. Would you?
Anyway, on October 22 all seemed to be well in DC. Here are the responses that I got. Thank you to those who chatted with me.
Marley- “I woke up, brushed my teeth, did the basic things that everybody does. I’m heading to a job meeting.”
Adam- “I’m enjoying the weather, slept most of the day. I’m going to a coffee shop to catch up on some online stuff.”
Cecelia- “I just left seeing about a friend. I look after her every Tuesday and Thursday. Now I’m headed home.”
Thomas- “Today is a friend’s birthday — he lives out of town. Just enjoying the nice weather.”
Randy- “Just a regular day. Just skating.”
Bradley- “I’m out and about. Applied for unemployment. Cooking dinner later on.”